I recently came across a new blog called “My Un-ordinary Life” written by the wife of a crossdresser. It seems most crossdressers out there on the internet claim that crossdressing is harmless or at least should be harmless. I couldn’t disagree more. Spouses can be feel very much betrayed by crossdressing, which makes sense to me as they didn’t sign on to that when getting married. To me, crossdressing without spousal approval can be just as harmful as adultery in some cases. Whether you think crossdressing is sinful or not, take the time to read some of this woman’s posts, to see that crossdressing can have a very damaging negative effect on a marriage, and more so on this woman’s very life and emotional well-being. Even if you think crossdressing “can” be harmless in a marriage, at least let’s all admit that it is not “always” harmless.