First, I read this article called – “Insights from a wife” and I thought the comparison of crossdressing to the ring in Lord of the Rings was a very apt comparison. This wife understands the hold that crossdressing/transgenderism had over her husband.
This little chart – “Recovery Do’s and Don’ts,” I think is helpful for husbands and wives tackling crossdressing together.
This is a helpful pamphlet for wives who just discovered their husband’s crossdressing addiction or transgender struggle – here. I’m not sure I agree with everything this document says about marriage, divorce, and remarriage. But overall it’s a helpful document. I like the emphasis on how wives can’t deal with this alone or expect their husbands to change without outside help and the support of other Christians.