Videos on the Serious Danger of Porn

As you watch these videos, remember that just as your brain chemistry changes as you become addicted to novelty and porn and masturbation, the same is true for sexual addiction to transgender porn, transgender fiction, lusting after images of crossdressers online, etc. For me, this was undoubtedly true in my sexual addiction to websites of a transgender or crossdressing nature, and I’m still in the long process of healing and recovering from that powerful addiction, though I’m very thankful for how I’ve changed and the freedom I experience today.

In addition, the same kind of sexual addiction with the novelty and binging element that the videos discuss, I also experienced with physical crossdressing. Why else do you think a crossdresser would constantly look in the mirror and constantly change outfits, and do so for hours at a time? Binging, novelty, addiction. Just as these videos describe.

This first video I’ve shared before, but in a slight different format. This one is a TED talk. The other videos I have only just seen for the first time.

In this video, I can definitely relate to what he is saying that addiction stems partly from wanting approval. Most of the times I have failed sexually were times of feeling depressed, rejected, or disliked. We need to get our approval from God, not from people. God’s love is unconditional.

This last video talks about some graphic content. As someone who was not addicted to porn, I did not realize how degrading and perverse most of internet porn really was until seeing this video.

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2 comments on “Videos on the Serious Danger of Porn

  1. Temptedsinner says:

    This is all disgustingly true. Having been a fan of “chatting” or CD fiction, videos were not my first choice. Although in times of boredom or days where I would spend endless hours on the computer I could always find CD porn to entertain myself with. All for free! As Gail Dines points out in the case of girls and women, the same holds true for a good CD lover. The acts portrayed have nothing to do with love, especially compared to the model of love portrayed in Christ. In truth the “stories” that I read or the “role playing” within a chat contained these same elements of humiliation, degradation and what I used to call submissiveness.
    This is what I craved, what I needed, what I wanted with every piece of my being. I also thought that there was nothing wrong with that. “this is just who I am” I really did think this way! As i type this I feel a bit nauseous looking back at who I thought that I was. I also feel scared at how easily I could slip back into that place of darkness. The pathways that years of habitual consumption of this kind of material has etched in my mind regardless of what delivery system was employed is frightening.
    I am “Tempted” to NOT post this comment,so as not to embarrass or expose myself but I want others to know that freedom is possible. Freedom from dressing, freedom from porn, freedom from obsessive sexual thinking. It is a long road with many potholes and setbacks. It is worth the fight. It is worth dusting myself off after a fall and fighting again. It is worth fighting for our wives and children and becoming a larger voice. “A voice of one crying out in the dessert”

    Thanks Thorin for being that voice! 🙂
    Tempted

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  2. thorin25 says:

    Tempted, such confessions bring to light what was in darkness, and contribute to your ongoing freedom. In addition, your posts such as this one help so many people, as well as bringing encouragement to me, seeing how God has helped you to change and find freedom. Keep such comments coming!

    I’m so thankful that I never got into CD porn. That doesn’t mean I was free from the internet addictions. Even if I was reading what some might call “harmless” CD fiction, without the bondage and humiliation most of the time, it was still just as much of an addiction, and still kept me in just as much slavery. In some ways it was even more dangerous, because it was easier to rationalize away than porn.

    Just thank God over and over for how he has rescued us both

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