Wives of Crossdressers Chat

This page was made upon request, for wives of crossdressers to have a place for discussion. There are other forums for crossdressers’ wives on the net, and I’ve linked to some of those on my links page. This page is intended to be a place where wives can support one another, give advice, pray for one another, and discuss these complicated issues. Since there are other general forums out there, this page will be mainly intended for those wives who view crossdressing as sinful or unhealthy, and for those wives who are Christians.  But all wives of crossdressers should feel very welcome to comment and discuss here.

I cannot add a forum into my site, so you will just have to comment and reply as one long thread. If you are a new user, I usually can approve you within a day or two.  I hold all email addresses with confidentiality, but for those of you who are rightly worried about security and anonymity, it’s easy to make a new email address with anonymous names, which you could do before commenting here.  If you have ideas about editing the description above, or have other ideas for this page, let me know.

I highly suggest you read this post which is for people trying to help those struggling with crossdressing, with a special long section especially directed to you wives – Giving pastoral care to a crossdresser or transgendered person


*Please do not post your email in the body of the comment itself. It is important to protect yourself from spam and potential harassment by never publicly posting your personal information (such as your email address) on this or any other blog. Rest assured that I will keep your email address confidential.

802 comments on “Wives of Crossdressers Chat

  1. Lisa says:

    Hi CD wife. It must be so distracting to see this person dressed in women’s attire. Seems to me the fellowship is accepting of his CDing. I would be so uncomfortable him using the lady’s bathroom. How do the other women feel about this situation? I would imagine they wait for him to leave before they go in. Whoever runs the fellowship is probably scared of a lawsuit if they confront this person. Sad, this person should indeed be prayed for.


  2. CD wife says:

    Hello dear Lisa. The fellowship is Alanon and no one would dare comment for fear of some sort of legal action and to be fare i don’t think many mind. I certainly was shocked to find him in the ladies room and i emailed Thorin and asked for advice and he advised me to pray for him.This was some time ago.
    If i find myself looking at him i just try not to think any unkind thoughts i have to just to accept the situation. I find it odd when people refer to him as her. He has also changed his name. At least there is no wife involved.
    I raised it in my previous posts to show what past CDs in recovery could be up to now.
    In the UK the transport system now says welcome everyone they are no longer allowed to say ladies and gentlemen !!! What have we come to ?


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